The college process is an extremely personal experience, but the recent rise of social media has made college decisions increasingly public. Online, one can find hundreds of videos of excited teens celebrating with their families after opening an acceptance letter from college. Whether yelling, jumping or shrieking, almost everyone in those videos appears excited. Some seniors also post their college acceptance minutes after they receive the acceptance email or letter. Sidwell contributes to this celebratory environment through its college decision Instagram page, where seniors post their acceptances and intended majors. Although intended to foster community, individuals must responsibly regulate their time spent on the page to celebrate classmates’ achievements healthily.
For many seniors, it is easier to tell larger groups of people about their college decision via the Instagram page than to face a potentially awkward situation with friends and family, even though this may be healthier. Also, seniors can begin planning for the future using the Instagram page. Students can connect with new people and continue interacting with the Sidwell community even after graduation by knowing who will attend college nearby.
Additionally, the Instagram page is a great way to celebrate classmates. Immediately after opening the page, viewers are greeted by a vibrant and joyous atmosphere. Dozens of school colors represent the diverse range of colleges seniors will attend in the fall. All seniors have worked hard during their high school careers, and the Instagram page is an opportunity to share their successes with fellow students, friends, and family members.
While the Instagram page generally does not encourage competition between students, the page can be a toxic environment for students who have received a rejection or deferral. Many seniors prefer not to speak about their admissions process to reduce the anxiety and pressure of applying to college. Seeing others’ successes can increase anxiety and self-doubt and comparison.
Unsurprisingly, social media has changed how people view college acceptances and share this important moment with others. While the Sidwell college decision Instagram page can be a joyful place to celebrate collective successes, it must be used cautiously. Individuals must know their own limits when using and engaging with the page, but otherwise, it can be a fantastic avenue to celebrate seniors’ accomplishments.